When asked what the signs of arousal are in a man, any girl will immediately answer that it is an erection. However, it is not possible to know if a guy wants to make love if you check if his organ is ready "for work and defense".
Signs of arousal in men:
- Nonverbal signals.
- Affair.
- Position of the man's body.
- Physical reactions.
Nonverbal Cues
There are nonverbal body signals that can tell you just as well as words if a man wants you. For example, if a guy is interested in you and wants to make love to you, he will begin to copy your actions on a subconscious level, this will manifest itself in the repetition of your body movements and positions. If a guy, on the contrary, starts playing "mirror" with you, it's a clear sign that he doesn't mind taking you to the bedroom.
During a conversation, an excited man will constantly close the distance between you, doing this absolutely automatically. In the process of communication, the distances between bodies will slowly but surely decrease. The next step is direct contact - touch. This does not mean that the man will begin to give up, allowing himself too much. The cooler your relationship, the less pronounced this stage will be. It can manifest itself in light contact with hands and feet. This is the body language that clearly tells you that a man is wanting you. Pay attention to these accidents, which, as a rule, are not at all accidental.
Affair
During communication, an enthusiastic man will not miss the opportunity to show attention to the object of his desire. If you are sitting at the table, he will fill your glass, serve you a snack, and in the case of a warm relationship, he will try to feed you with his own hands. The latter is a clear sign that the "client is ready", take him lukewarm, he won't go anywhere.
A lively man will help you sit down on a chair and get up from it. He will give you warm clothes and help you put them on. He will do all this not just for politeness. Your masculine nature will tell you that this is an additional opportunity to establish contact, to touch the object of your desire.
Position of the man's body
Seeing a woman he is interested in, the guy automatically turns on the "macho" mode, he straightens his back, pulls in his belly, thus demonstrating how harmonious he is and all the charms of his manly figure. If a guy is sitting down, he will automatically spread his legs, exposing his crotch. Opening your legs is a gesture of a confident man who has noticed a worthy woman.
If you are facing each other, pay attention to which direction the toes of your shoes "look. "Facing you means he is interested in you.
Physical reactions
Physiologically, the state of excitement does not only manifest itself in the erect penis. A man's respiratory rate, voice and gaze change, his pulse quickens, his blood pressure increases. If you notice him adjusting his tie, which seems to suffocate him, perhaps it's not because it's hot, but because the man is literally burning with the desire to have sex with you. At the same time, follow the man's voice and gaze. If he is excited, he will not be able to hide it behind a "mask".
Pay attention to the man's breathing. If he is excited, he will not be able to breathe as evenly and calmly as in his normal state. His breathing will change.